Carlos Xuma – Alpha Sexual Power Download
Have you ever been in that moment with a woman where you KNOW you should make a move – like hold her hand or kiss her – and the time is right… but you back down and chicken out at the last second?
- … feel frustrated with how you’re dating women – being stuck on HER sexual timetable?
- … feel like you’re in a state of sexual “limbo” – unable to connect with women and get them into the bedroom?
- … feel like you lack the sexual POWER to choose the kind of woman you want for a girlfriend? That all the women you want are “out of your league,” and you’re going to have to settle for less if you want to get any sex?
- … feel like you’re trapped in a “negative loop” – unable to break out of your anxious thoughts long enough to feel comfortable and sexually confident around women?
Look, let’s cut to the chase… You’re sexually frustrated.
You want to get laid. You probably even want a girlfriend and not just a one night stand. (But hey, either one would do…)
You see all those guys around you either using some kind of fake banter or clever tricks to get women, but you’ve either tried it and couldn’t pull it off, or it’s just not you and you don’t even want to bother with it.
And as pissed off and frustrated as you might be, you don’t want to be a manipulative jerk or deceptive just to attract a woman.
You’ve got some standards, and that’s important.
BUT this situation is getting old, and you really need some results – FAST!
Dating Coach For Guys…Carlos Xuma
But There Are LOTS Of Places You Can Make Mistakes That Scare Women Off…
There are a lot of steps between first meeting a woman and getting physical with her.
- First you gotta think of something cool to say to walk up and approach her, and you risk getting rejected even IF you manage to work up the balls to do it. (Let’s face it – most of the time it’s more comfortable not to bother and just avoid the risk of getting shot down…)
- IF you’re not shot down, then you have to try to get her interested in you with some witty conversation and banter…
- And IF you can get her attracted and interested, that’s still no guarantee you’ll get her phone number…
- And most of the time, it’s either a bad number, or she never answers… (Even when you think you got things started GREAT with her.)
- And IF you do call her and talk to her, how do you get that first date…?
- And then how do you make sure she doesn’t flake out on you…?
- Wait, what about getting the second date…?
- What do you do to get a kiss?
- And then what about getting more physically intimate with her…?
But here’s the worst part: If you mess up on any of these small steps – GAME OVER! You gotta go all the way back to the end of the line, and you have to start the whole process all over again.
And what about sex?
Tthe most important thing to know about all these steps from approaching a woman to dating her – to sleeping with her – is this: There is ONE absolutely critical attraction element you must have to get women to go ‘all the way’ with you. Most so-called “modern men” are missing it.And if you’re missing this one CRITICAL piece of the puzzle, THIS will probably happen to you:
- She’ll flake out early on or just lose her interest. I call this “Failure to launch” syndrome…
- And even IF you get a date or two, it fizzles out just when you should be getting hot and physical…
- And even IF you beat the odds and make it to the bedroom, there’s no real fireworks there, and the chemistry dies.
And when you’re missing this vital piece of the picture, you usually wind up with her telling you she wants to “just be friends.”
So again, you need this critical ingredient in your back pocket or nothing you do will work right with women. It took me years to identify and find this one critical piece of the puzzle. It’s the “magic bullet” for guys who want to put an end to their sexual frustration once and for all.
I’m going to reveal here what that critical piece is, but first you need to know…
What 99 Out Of 100 Guys Don’t Know About “Escalating” With Women…
Almost none of the guys out there know about this, and it’s why most guys wind up settling for women instead of having a “trophy” on their arm. I’m willing to bet that you’ve experienced the “Flinch.” What is the “Flinch”?
It’s that point where you shy away from showing your sexual interest in a woman. You know you’ve reached a point where you SHOULD do something to “make a move,” but you don’t.
Maybe there’s a pause in the conversation where you should ask for her number… and you don’t. Or you call her up to ask her out, but she seems distracted… so you don’t. Or she seems ready for the kiss, and the moment is right… but you don’t.
You back off or chicken out. You start to lose your sexual confidence.
Do You Recognize These 5 Early Warning Signs? Ask yourself:
- Do you ever hide your sexual desires from women? (Trying to sneak in and be indirect with your interest?)
- Are you afraid to touch a woman (even on the arm) on the first date?
- Are you afraid of being “caught” admiring a woman’s beauty?
- Do you think it’s disrespectful to make a sexual advance on a woman without a very clear invitation from her?
- Do you find yourself looking away quickly when making eye contact with women?
If you can identify with any of those signs, it’s very likely that what I’m about to tell you will completely transform your sexual success with women. Even if you’ve tried other methods in the past and had limited success – or NO success.
I’ll tell you this: I’ve personally experienced all 5 of those warning signs above at one point or another. And no, it’s not your fault you have trouble getting sexual with women.
The man’s BIG MISTAKE is this:
Most Guys Wind Up HIDING Their Sexual Interest In Women…
This mistake is much much worse than showing too much interest, by the way. Why do guys keep their interest in a woman hidden like this?
At first I thought it was because we were afraid of ruining things with women. After all, most women can be approached and will talk to you. But when you get ten minutes into a conversation, if you’re faced with possibly taking a risk on her saying NO, you probably won’t take that risk.
You’ll back off from taking the next step because you don’t want to ruin what you’ve got, right?
But what I saw underneath it all was a fear. This fear is ruining the ability of most men to get things started with women they’re attracted to. So what I realized was…
The real reason guys hide their sexual interest in a woman is because they feel sexual PANIC around attractive women.
And when you feel sexual panic – and she senses it – this KILLS your sexual confidence. The “ONE critical thing” I’ve been talking about – that you need – is this:
The Secret Is Sexual Confidence…
If your sexual confidence gets “turned off” when you’re with a woman, she’ll sense it.
There’s an old bit of sales wisdom that says that bad salesmen are ‘bad’ simply because they don’t believe enough in the product they’re selling.
And the BEST salesmen believe they’ve got something fantastic – and every person alive needs to have this product. They’d never let someone walk away without buying it. They’d actually be hurting their prospect if they didn’t convince them to get it.
You don’t need any clever sales techniques when you REALLY believe in what you’re selling.
Well, with most guys, their core foundation is unstable and shaky. And they don’t feel like the Prize. They don’t feel confident in their “product.” They can’t escalate and “close the deal.”
Not only is this true in sales, it’s TWICE as true with women. Your product is YOU, my friend!
So why don’t you have confidence in your “product”? Why aren’t YOU sexually confident?
Why Guys Aren’t Getting Sex From Women… Especially the NICE guys
Because of something I call “fear of pulling the trigger…”Guys spend way too much time hiding their interest in women – because of sexual panic – and not being sexually assertive enough. They flinch instead of moving the game forward. They think they’ve got to approach a woman with kid gloves and be Mr. Nice Guy. Mr. Super Romantic Guy.
You may have noticed that acting like that doesn’t work, does it? You don’t want to trick her either, so…
Here’s One Simple Technique To Make A Woman Sexually Desire You…
So the guy is moving forward, hoping the woman doesn’t put on the brakes… and the girl is just watching his every move, getting ready to stop him.
Do you know how to go further – faster – with women?
The Secret is this: Put on the brakes FIRST.
The best thing you can do to guarantee that you keep moving forward – keep escalating – is just to know when she’s about to put on the brakes, and then you stop her before she stops you.
This flips a switch in her head – and gets her interested and motivated to KEEP getting more sexually intimate with you – instead of shutting you down.
You probably thought that this was completely opposite to the way you wanted to handle it, right?
The male ego says: “Keep going until she stops you!” But if you do this one too many times, you’re cut off for good. If she puts your brakes on more than a few times, she’s going to make one assumption: “He ONLY wants to have sex with me…” Then she puts an end to the fun.
And even if she was interested in some fun for herself, she’s not going to let the sex happen just because her programming won’t let her sleep with you until you put things back in the right order.